There will be days we will try to look our best. To take a few extra minutes to find that perfect outfit, do your hair, or put on make-up. Most of the time, we do it because of society and for our peers. We don’t want to be judged so we try to prepare ourselves so society can accept us. But why must we do that for society? For the people we don’t even know? We would get sad if that person you are attracted to you doesn’t make eye contact. You would get upset if society talks about your flaws. Most of us are secretly self conscious in what others are thinking and starts to feel uncomfortable. They start to suck in their stomach because they feel too fat. They try to fix their hair and adjust themselves to look more presentable. But why do so when we have more than a handful of friends and family who love us during our scrubbiest? We need to learn to accept ourselves; flaws and all. We should appreciate the ones we truly care and love. And I promise you would feel much better about yourself. I must confess, I have always cared about what society thinks of me,but I try to tell myself, fuck that, I already have plenty of people who love me for who I am. I have a few uncontrolled flaws and I do feel helpless. But my friends support me and have helped me get through the bullying, shit talking, and the fakeass people in my life who took my kindness for granted.